Learning how to communicate in a relationship isn’t rocket science. But at times it can feel like a science. It can truly feel like a struggle when trying to better understand the opposite sex.
The differences between men and women are only compounded when you consider the fact that as human beings we come with our own unique set of personality traits, quirks, and characteristics.
We’re as different as can be.
So not only are you trying to learn how to communicate with the opposite sex in an effective way, you’re also trying to communicate with another unique and complex human being as well.
But to help you navigate the waters of relationship communication, I’ve listed several key techniques that have stood the test of time when it comes to communicating effectively in a relationship:
You’ve heard it all before, but learning how to effectively listen to your partner will help you to better deal with their emotions. For the most part, your partner may be saying one thing but they really mean something else entirely, and only through active listening will you be able to figure out what’s really on their mind.
Allow your mind to focus fully on your partner because they need your full attention. Instead of interjecting in order to add to the conversation, simply let them express themselves fully without having them feel as if you’re going to try to give them some unsolicited advice.
Listen intently and only engage your partner in a way that encourages them to sort through their own feelings.
2. Silence Your Self-Talk
What I mean is, don’t have a discussion in your mind while your partner is talking to you. Stop trying to figure out what it is you want to say while they’re expressing themselves.
As human beings we’re always having a conversation in our minds about something. So to solve this, you must consciously make the attempt to keep your thought process still and silent.
Don’t try to think about what you’d like to say while your partner’s talking, just listen to them intently and pay close attention to the emotions underlying what they’re saying. The more you can quiet your mind while they’re talking to you, the better chance you’ll have of actually getting to the heart of the matter.
3. Don’t Judge or Criticize
This goes without saying, but while your partner is trying to explain their problem try to avoid criticizing them or the issue at hand. Don’t trivialize what they may be going through. Learn how to be more supportive in your relationship and give your partner the gift of being sincere and vulnerable with you.
Keep any snide remarks and cynicism far from your mind when your partner is trying to discuss their feelings. The more you can create an environment that is free from prejudice, the more secure they will feel with you, thus allowing for a deeper level of trust and intimacy between you and the one you love.
So as you learn how to communicate in a relationship, remember that at the end of the day all your partner wants is to be understood and accepted by someone they deeply trust and love. In fact, all we all want is to have the freedom to express our true selves with someone who loves us unconditionally.
Passionate love making isn’t just your normal kind of routine sex romp. This kind of love making is all about creating an intense and unforgettable experience with your significant other.
Passionate love making is all about feeding the desire that you have for your lover, and feeding their desire as well. And as you build up that desire, you find new and exciting ways of fulfilling one another’s sexual needs and wants.
So if you’re looking to add a bit more passion and excitement in the bedroom (or wherever), then look no further. Here’s a tasty list of passionate love making tips that should be enough to get any couple started on the road to more intense love making.
Passionate Love Making Tips For Couples
1. Seductive Massage
Give a full body massage to your lover. Set the mood right with some scented candles and use tantalizing massage oils to rub over your lover’s body. Make sure you start at the top and work your way down their back side…slowly. Then, turn your lover over gently and start all over again on their front side.
By the time you’re finished massaging your lover, the both of you will be filled with an undeniable passion for prolonged lovemaking. The refreshing effect of a full body massage puts the mind at ease, while releasing hormones that help the body to relax more easily. This means that both the mind and body can readily respond to exciting sexual stimulus, in this case…you!
2. Passionate Kissing
Nothing builds desire for passionate love making quite like a passionate kiss that builds upon itself. Because a passionate kiss is basically a prelude to more intimate pleasures, the idea is to allow it to build expectancy and yearning in your lover.
Everyone has a “sweet spot” that drives them wild whenever kissed. Use this to your advantage when you want to create desire in your lover by softly kissing them there. Softly kiss and caress your lover gently while stopping and starting again in order to build anticipation.
Let your lips travel and move about your lover’s body until you reach their lips. And as your partner becomes more and more enticed and captivated in the moment, do what comes natural.
3. Dirty Talk
Words are powerful things. And when it comes to passionate love making, they can be even more powerful than physical touch. The art of dirty talk can catapult your love making to unparalleled heights of pleasure and ecstasy.
The key to dirty talk lies in knowing the inner workings of your lover’s mind. As you learn their inner needs and desires, you’ll better understand the ways in which you can use romantic language and sexual communication to build their sexual desire.
For example, women should try telling men what they enjoy about making love with their lover’s. Men have big egos and big libidos, and the woman who can use dirty talk to cater to these two things can easily drive her man wild with desire and anticipation.
Men should try to paint vivid images in the mind of his woman. Because women usually tend to take a bit longer to warm up for love making than men do, use your words seductively in order to get her completely reduce her muscle tensions and free her inhibitions.
By creating romantic scenes in her mind, you are literally preparing her body for an intense session of passionate love making.